In the midst of controversy over homosexuality, gay rights and homophobia comes a new understanding of the meaning and causes of homosexuality. Richard Cohen, founder and director of the International Healing Foundation, is a psychotherapist, educator and author who has created a successful program to assist men, women and adolescents in transitioning from homosexuality to heterosexuality. Having spent many years investigating the origins of this condition, Mr. Cohen himself made the change. He now lives in the Washington, DC area with his wife and three children. Mr. Cohen is available for speaking engagements on the causes and treatment of homosexuality
TOPICS FOR PRESENTATION (described in detail below):
- Healing Homosexuality: Causes, Cures and Compassion
- The Meaning and Causes of Homosexuality
- The Process of Transitioning from Homosexual to Heterosexual
- Therapeutic Tools and Techniques for Transitioning from Homosexual to Heterosexual
- Reparenting: A Mentorship Model
- Are Gay Rights Right?
- My Story: Coming Out of Homosexuality
"Healing Homosexuality: Causes, Cure and Compassion"
- Origin of same-sex attractions
- Process of healing homosexuality
- Preventing homosexuality in children
In this introductory presentation, Mr. Cohen describes the latest scientific research on the causes of same-sex attractions. He presents clear evidence that there is no scientific data to support a genetic or biologic basis for homosexuality. Next he lists ten major causes of same-sex attractions. Then he describes a four-stage model of recovery, how anyone can transition from homosexual to heterosexual. He also offers five practical ways in which we can bring about positive changes in our community. Finally, he describes ways to prevent homosexuality in children, the signs to look for and what actions to take.
Length: 45 - 60 minutes or 3 hours
"The Meaning and Causes of Homosexuality"
- Scientific research: genetics and biology
- Defining same-sex attractions: three hidden meanings
- Ten major causes that create a homosexual orientation
Over the past decade, several social scientists have tried to prove that people are born homosexual. Mr. Cohen gives an overview and critique of each of their studies, showing clearly that there is no scientific data to support a genetic or biologic basis for same-sex attractions. Next, Mr. Cohen defines the three basic meanings behind all homosexual desires: 1) need for same-sex parent's love, 2) need for gender identification, and 3) fear of intimacy with the opposite sex. Finally, he details the ten major causes that create same-sex attractions in either men or women: 1) heredity, 2) temperament, 3) hetero-emotional wounds, 4) homo-emotional wounds, 5) sibling wounds / family dynamics, 6) body image wounds, 7) sexual abuse, 8) peer / social wounds, 9) cultural wounds, and 10) intrauterine influences. Through this presentation, all will learn about the origins of same-sex attractions.
Length: 45 60 minutes or 1 day training
"The Process of Transitioning from Homosexual to Heterosexual"
- Four-stage model of recovery
- Tasks to be accomplished in each stage
- Developmental issues in recovery
Through a decade of helping men, women and adolescents come out of homosexuality, Mr. Cohen has created a four-stage model of healing. It has proven successful for those who desire to change. In this presentation, he will describe each stage of recovery and what tasks need to be accomplished in each stage. Next, he will detail a variety of therapeutic tools and techniques to aid in the process of healing. Finally, he will describe various issues that each man and woman coming out of homosexuality needs to address. This talk is helpful for anyone who wishes to assist men, women and adolescents in making the transition from homosexual to heterosexual.
Length: 45 60 minutes or 1 day training
"Therapeutic Tools and Techniques for Transitioning from Homosexual to Heterosexual"
- Initial interview
- Tools and techniques to aid in recovery
- Spiritual, emotional, mental and physical aspects of healing
In this presentation, Mr. Cohen will share some of the tools and techniques that will help facilitate change along the path of healing. First he will describe the initial interview, what to look for and what questions to ask. Next, he will explain how to develop a treatment plan, making a program of recovery for each individual. Then he will describe a variety of therapeutic tools and techniques to use in each stage of healing. By using these skills together with the four-stage model of recovery, any individual who desires to come out of homosexuality may do so. The methods described will equip both the professional and non-professional with practical tools to assist those in recovery. Mr. Cohen will also address the four aspects of healing - spiritual, emotional, mental and physical and how they relate to the four stages of recovery. No one is born with same-sex attractions. What was learned can be unlearned. Mr. Cohen will shows clearly how this is possible.
Length: 45 60 minutes or 1 3 day training
"Reparenting: A Mentorship Model"
- Introduction to Reparenting
- Roles and responsibilities of the mentor / reparenter
- Roles and responsibilities of the adult-child
Anyone who did not experience successful bonding, love and intimacy with either father and or mother, seeks to heal these needs in other relationships or activities. Reparenting is a technique used to heal the parent-child relationship, whereby one person will act as the parent, called the "reparenter," and the other will act as the child, called the "adult-child." This mentoring model is useful to heal both homo-emotional and hetero-emotional wounds (wounding that occurred with either the same-sex parent and or opposite-sex parent). It is imperative to set clear boundaries in this healing relationship, therefore Mr. Cohen will present the basic roles and responsibilities of the both the reparenter and adult-child. Through such mentoring relationships, past trauma may be healed and unmet needs fulfilled.
Length: 45 60 minutes or 3 hours
"Are Gay Rights Right?"
- Brief history of the homosexual movement
- Goals, strategies and agenda of the Gay Rights Movement
- What we can do to effect positive changes in our communities
Over the past four decades a veritable revolution has taken place in America and throughout the world. There are thousands of homosexual bars throughout the country. Every major city has a homosexual newspaper. Churches ordain homosexual ministers and marry homosexual couples. Almost every college, university and now high school campus has "gay and lesbian" student organizations. The American Psychiatric and Psychological Associations along with the American Medical Association have declared homosexuality a normal, alternative lifestyle. Many states and cities throughout America have passed special legislation for homosexuals. Several countries in the world recognize homosexual marriages. Mr. Cohen will give a brief history of the homosexual movement and how they have accomplished so much in such a short period of time. He will then present ways in which we can help create positive changes in our schools, communities, churches and local government sharing the truth with love.
Length: 45 60 minutes or 3 hours
"My Story" Coming Out of Homosexuality"
Mr. Cohen shares his personal story of how he came out of homosexuality. For many years he struggled with same-sex attractions. He prayed for God to take the desires away, but they continued. He was raised in the Jewish faith and became a Christian in college. At that time he had a boyfriend of three years. Finally through his study of the Word and conviction from God, Richard terminated his relationship with his boyfriend. Nine years later Richard married, however he had suppressed his same-sex attractions. It took many trials and attempts to heal the wounds that created these desires. Finally the Lord delivered him out of homosexuality. Today he is happily married and has three beautiful children. Over the past decade, he has helped hundreds of men, women and adolescents come out of homosexuality. He is the author of several books on the causes and treatment of same-sex attractions. He has appeared on "Larry King Live," "20/20," and "Ricki Lake." He has been featured on numerous radio talk shows throughout the country.
Length: 10 - 40 minutes (more or less as the situation warrants)
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